Thursday, June 07, 2007

結婚

星期一踏上教堂地毯,迎接人生另一階段。
可心裡忐忑不安,因為我不知道自己是否真心想結婚,也不知是否真的想跟身邊人共偕連理。我父母也不知道這婚事。婚後也是分開住,各住在自家。
當下心裡想就試試是否想跟對方白頭到老吧。不合則離。這建議是一個好弟兄提出的。

半夜醒來,驚覺是夢一場,感到很恐怖,比夢見自己被追殺更甚。不知道何解做如此奇怪的夢。
凡事真的要想清楚。夢中的情況應該不會發生在現實生活。

4 comments:

Teoh KL said...

Hey you surprised me greatly since you never give a hint... thought you have finally made up your mind to tie up the knot.

"夢中的情況應該不會發生在現實生活", am being a bachelor, I think I could understand your feeling now. People is thinking over deliberately nowadays before exchanging vows. Probably you haven't met your 缘.

tedstory said...

Teoh,
HaHa
Ya, need to think serious before making a decision, and maybe my 緣 (can I say lot!?) have not came to me.
So have you met your 緣?

Teoh KL said...

缘 was available but given up. Afraid of losing my freedom and tangling with commitments...

Dennis Chong said...

我覺得結不結婚是個人選擇 選擇了就不用害怕 只是現在的你覺得結婚是很遙遠的事 所以才會用惡夢來形容 不過 你怕的原因是甚麼? 你會覺得這種恐懼可以解決嗎?